10 Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You

Has it ever struck you, if or not, a handsome stud sitting next to you or standing someone within your field of vision is flirting with you?

There are several ways to determine whether a guy is flirting with you, one of them being reading the gestures.

But mind you, reading someone’s gesture is quite baffling if you don’t do it right. They say, ignorance is a misfortune. So, I am here at your privilege to reveal the secret signs to look for in a guy to know if he is flirting with you.

What are the signs of flirting from men? Does he fancy flirting with you? You shall have your questions answered by the end of this article.

Here are the top 10 signs that a guy is flirting with you:

1. Smile


It’s one of the most important gestures seen in men who flirt with women. Smile works as a perfect charmer as well as a perfect seductive tactic.

If he is shining a lovely smile in your direction, then it’s likely that he is flirting with you. “Oh, what do I do now?”, you might be thinking. Don’t panic. The answer is quite simple – smile back at him. It will make it quite clear to him that you are on the same page as him.

Moreover, if you are interested in him, approach him and initiate a conversation. Approaching a guy first is a sign of confidence in a woman and that’s something to die for.

2. Blush

If a shy guy is eyeing on you, it’s highly likely that he will blush if he likes you. Blushing happens quite naturally.

I mean I blush at the immediate instant of watching a video of Alex Turner. The slicked back hair, the leather jacket with the collar popped like antenna, he is like “ a can of Dandelion and Burdock” and well, all the other men are just “postmix lemonade”.

Chances are that if you like him back, you will start blushing too, thus putting a strong “blush-game” altogether.

3. Eye Contact

eye contact

The frequency and tenure of the eye-contact he makes is a determinant factor in determining if he is flirting with you. The tradition maxim explains that the longer the stare, the better but there’s a more modern approach to it now.

Eye contact is a healthy sign that a guy is flirting with you. If he holds an eye contact for a brief period and then looks away, and looks back again, it implies that he is flirting with you.

4. Mirroring Your Actions

If a man mirrors a woman’s actions, from the way a woman is laughing to the way she speaks without realising it, it shows that he is flirting with her.

Justin Timberlake sang it just right with the lyrics , “ It’s like you’re my mirror, my mirror staring back at me.”

It’s quite a natural act to pull. Besides, it has been recommended by the dating coaches to use this technique in order to give a signal that you are flirting.

5. Hands on Hips

I am not a big fan of this tactic that men follow but hey, you are not me an it might interest you.

Men tend to keep their hands on their hips or even in the loop of their belt whilst they are having a conversation with the woman they fancy. It is a way to

depict self-confidence.

Alex was once quoted saying, “ Shakira’s hips don’t lie but mine are incredibly good liars.” Note the point, ladies. Don’t let those hips fool you.

6. Flirtatious Touch


How to touch a girl when flirting? Them boys know it well.

Boys tend to flirtatiously touch the lady they like. It is a sign of care and love, combined.

Watch for signs if he touches you flirtatiously. If yes, then he likes you. If you like him back, then it’s a good thing.

However, if some other man pulls the act and he is nowhere in the radar of your interests, act up and rebel.

7. Head Tilts

Don’t you just love it when your crush is paying attention to what we are saying? Of course, you do.

Head tilts are the signs shown by an active listener. Even if you are talking about the silliest thing on the planet, a guy who likes you will tilt his head towards you and listening actively to each word that’s being popped out of your mouth.

You might want to cover up and not let it show on your face but I so know that you love it when he listens to you. Do you want my verdict? Well, he seems to be a keeper.

Win him over and keep him!

8. Dilation of Pupils

Eyes are the pathway to a person’s heart. So, take a glance into his eyes and assess whether or not they dilate when he is talking to you.

If that be the case, then he is sure as hell interested in you.

However, contraction in the pupils would prove the contrary.

9. Raised Eyebrows

Raised Eyebrows

Even if he may be shy and may resist the temptation to not look into your eyes quite noticeably, he may, however, look at you with eyes wide open and raised eyebrows.

This often signalizes that he likes you and is aiming to flirt with you.

10. Fidgeting

Fidgeting indicates that one is nervous and it’s quite genuine to be nervous whilst you are with someone you fancy. Moreso, it’s also understandable that you fidget whilst he is sitting next to you or is somewhere in your vicinity, because you don’t really know if he likes you back.

Look out for this sign and see if he fidgets too whilst he is having a conversation with you or at the very instance whilst he approaches you.


Look around for your crush and try to analyse if he pulls off any of the acts mentioned above. If yes, then the game of flirting is ON. Congratulations!


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